Hi Rick. Thanks for taking my question. DDay 9 weeks ago. However, I found out 1 week ago the affair is still ongoing (she doesn't know that I know). The AP is out of country for 1 month. My wife grieved to some degree then has been trying to be "normal" with me in regards to behavior and verbiage as prior to affair. We've been having sex which confuses me. She has not been forthcoming, hasn't done anything to show she wants to reconcile this matter and appears to be sweeping this under the rug. I know there will be ongoing contact when AP comes back but who knows to what extent. I'm scared having sex along with many other things are a mistake as she hasn't said or actually done anything to address the elephant in the room and begin reconciliation. I'm confused and do not know how I should proceed. Thanks again.