Since my unfaithful future husband started an intimate relationship with his future adulteress prior to our marriage, how can I work through this intensive pain and mistrust? I thought I married the man of my dreams. He is a Christian, and I never thought he could do such a hurtful thing. He treated me like I was special and the love of his life. He can't tell me why he even married me, while he was courting someone else. His wedding vows to me were a lie before we even started our marriage. Thank you for any insight you can give me to deal with this nightmare.