Rick Reynolds, LCSW
by Rick Reynolds, LCSW
Founder & President, Affair Recovery

We Started Well, but...

It's strange how life changes. In the beginning when Stephanie and I first met, my motivation for spending time with her was simply because I liked it. She was a blast and I couldn't get enough. In fact, I took advantage of every opportunity to spend time with her. However, once married much of that changed. For some reason, after marriage I began trying to please her and make her happy. Not to say that there weren't moments of enjoyment, but that wasn't the main point. Even worse, sometimes…
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We started well...but

Hi Rick,   I was reading your letter of encouragement and I myself will try and I know I will fail sometimes but anyway I will try to do that advise of enjoying your spouse instead of trying to please them.  I really do enjoy when I have time, to read and learn any thoughts or ideas from your website.  Thanks again.  Diane


This is great Rick... thanks so much for this posting. It's so true, practical, and helpfull. I would like more of this kind of help... specially for the ones like us who live abroad.

Kindest regards from South America

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