Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question I know this subject has been covered extensively and I have read much of what I can find regarding this issue (including Rick's recent article). However, I'd like to ask your opinion regarding contacting the AP. In my case, I knew the AP very well. I worked with her for a total of six years and my husband's affair was during the last two years of that period. Therefore I was betrayed by two people and I continued to work with her on a …To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Leslie and John's archiveDescriptions: For the hurt spouseRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFor The Hurt SpouseHandling DiscoveryRecovery FundamentalsSafety in RecoveryRL_Media Type: Audio