Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Hi. My question is about separation. Its been about 7 months since discovery and my husband seems to want to just forgive and forget, and have me switch my feelings off like a light switch, while I am stuck in my pain. He called me "doom and gloom" and yelled at me that my attitude just makes things worse. I constantly try to not make things worse, even though I am not perfect, and I am trying to heal but I seem to step further back w…