All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4827 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on February 7 2/02/2011 How do I take care of myself when my mate gets defensive if I have problems with movies or TV he's watching? 2/02/2011 What happens with the unfaithful spouse that when I try to explain how I feel they get defensive and angry, even if it's feelings about something other than him or the infidelity itself? 2/02/2011 How can I believe he loves me after what he has done? 2/02/2011 , Can you survive without a mentor? 1/26/2011 , Can you survive without a mentor? 1/26/2011 How do you set boundaries for your mate? 1/18/2011 If my mate fits multiple catagories for the "Affair Types" does it make it more difficult for him to experience remorse? 1/18/2011 Should I let my mate read my journal to help her understand how she impacted me? 1/18/2011 What are "Seemingly Unimportant Decisions" (SUDS) and how do people move toward relapse? 1/18/2011 What does taking reponsibility look like and how do I know what need the affair partner was meeting? 1/18/2011 Why is it so difficult to be real with my mate after an affair? 1/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 31 1/18/2011 Can you explain the concept of compartmentalization? 1/10/2011 In the article "Why is it so hard to trust?" you said be cautious, please explain what you mean by that 1/10/2011 Are you sure it's that you didn't know, or just that you knew it but didn't care at the time? 1/10/2011 My wife cheated and I feel like I'm being overly sensitive and doing most of the work 1/10/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 17 1/10/2011 How do I handle intrusive thoughts expcecially during sex? 1/03/2011 My mate doesn't want joint bank accounts, do I need to be worried? 1/03/2011 What can I do if he doesn't want to change or talk to anyone or do anything? 1/03/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 10 1/03/2011 It's the one year anniversy of the disclosure, is it normal for me to be feeling such saddness or am I just feeling sorry for myself? 12/22/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on January 3 12/20/2010 Surviving the Holidays 12/15/2010 How do I know if my mate has been honest with me and would a polygraph exam help? 12/14/2010 My husband refuses to talk about his infidelty and just wants me to get over it, do you have any thoughts on how to get him to address the infideltiy? 12/13/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on December 20 12/13/2010 The more my wife digs into trying to understand why the more discouraged she gets, Why is this so hard? Is she going to give up? 12/08/2010 Since what I did was wrong and unjustified, how is it that he can or should be empathetic? He wants to work toward forgiveness but doesn't see how this this fits 12/08/2010 We're 8 months into recovery and my mate seems to be getting more disconnected it that normal? 12/08/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on December 13 12/08/2010 I don't think my wife gets it and I'm still hurting, is that normal and can you give me feedback? 12/04/2010 An Extraodinary Life 12/01/2010 My husband keeps blaming the marriage for his affair, how do you feel about this and how do we repair our marriage? 11/30/2010 Why are the hollidays so hard and what are tips for reclaiming peace and celebration? 11/30/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on December 6 11/30/2010 Is it normal for me to have more sexual desire for my mate as we go through this process? 11/23/2010 Is my mate telling me the truth about parts of his memory being blank when it comes to his pattern of acting out, is that possible? 11/23/2010 I am finding that others in my life are now triggering the same feelings of betrayal that I experieced with my mate's betrayal, is that normal? 11/23/2010 Are their other motivating factors besides sexual desire that can cause someone to act out sexually? 11/23/2010 How do the addictions of parents impact their children? 11/23/2010 What does God think about Facebook 11/23/2010 How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 11/18/2010 Does blackmail ever play a role in a person's continuing an affair? 11/16/2010 How do I respond to my mate's failure to be totally truthful with me? 11/16/2010 I think I'm beginning to understand why my mate acted out 11/16/2010 Is something wrong with me if I still can't make a decision as to what to do a year after discovery? 11/16/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 29 11/16/2010 Can self-loathing serve as a motivating factor in sexual abuse? 11/16/2010 Pages« first‹ previous…888990919293949596next ›last »
