Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2014 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Q&A How Do Men Compartmentalize? 8/23/2010 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 3/26/2010 Disclosing the Affair: Do I Tell or Not? 2/24/2010 The Shocking Truth About Trust 1/26/2010 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 8/21/2009 Grace in Recovery 3/09/2008 Anger Management 12/30/2007 Surviving the Holidays: An Interview with Dr. Karen Royer 12/16/2007 Pages« first‹ previous123456