Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change?

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Question

My husband is emotionally immature, according to my therapist; who has also seen us as a couple. I’m not sure if I should continue with this therapist. Her first husband cheated on her and she has told me more than once that she couldn’t stay in a relationship like that, that most of her clients don’t stay together; but who knows maybe we will be the first. She has also indicated that my husband will remain emotionally immature and I have to decide if his behaviors are something I can live with in order to stay married. We are in week 2 of EMS Online, I completed Harboring Hope. This therapist has been helpful with other issues. I have PTSD from a car accident in 2019 and my dad’s fatal farming accident in 2013 but I am not sure if I should continue with her and is she right? Am I wasting my time hoping he can truly change?

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