Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Mon, 10/24/2016 - 13:52

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How can a spouse claim to love you and tell you he wanted to fix it when in reality he has used the numerous years since the first disclosure to have a free for all and lie, continually cheat, tell you one day he wants you and the next how your unlovable and that he doesn't care. How can he even begin to claim he loved or wanted to fix it when the daily average actions were abuse, neglect, gaslighting, cheating, and lies?

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