Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior?

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Today I was triggered about my husband's past fake Facebook account where he used to message women. How do I get over my husband's past behavior that to me was disgusting and unethical? I am in Harboring Hope and my husband is in good recovery for sex addiction after a long time getting there, with his goal of keeping our marriage, being a better person and changing faulty thinking that led to his past secret life. I see glimpses of the man I fell in love with due to his hard work. But I hate the reality of who my husband was. Sometimes I feel weak for not leaving but I don't see good things for me or my sons in leaving. I know that feeling morally superior or taking on his shame is not a good basis for a health relationship going forward. Any words of healing wisdom appreciated.



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