My husband wore gifts that his AP gave him and they form part of our family photos. His affair went on for one year and during that time; he wore these items in many of our pictures. Every time I look back at those pictures, I think of my husband and his AP smugly sharing their dirty little secret. They are painful for me to see. Should I go ahead and delete the pictures and wipe out a big part of our year to minimize the triggers? My finger is hovering on the delete button, but before I proceed, I want to make sure that it will be a rational decision and not something I will later regret doing.