Q&A What Should I Focus On?

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We are 2 months out from last contact with the affair partner. We are in EMS Online and I am in Harboring Hope. My husband is finally feeling some empathy but still struggles with feelings for the AP. She called him the other day saying she was taking a pregnancy test and wanted him to know. He could not reach me by phone so he made the decision to meet her at a drugstore and take the test; he came home and told me all that happened. The test was negative and he felt good that his feelings felt differently toward her. This is a good thing but I am upset by how he responded to her and crossed the boundaries of not having me be a part of the decision on how to handle the call. I am trying to focus on the positive here but wonder, should I really press the issue or just focus on moving forward?



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