Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty?

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We are 5 months post d-day. There are highs and lows. We've taken EMSO and have started married for life. My husband has done everything right after d-day. Kudos to him. However, I just feel empty. I'm not angry, sad or even happy. I'm just in a place of nothingness. We do things together, which are nice, but it just feels calculated. Almost like it's an act. This is just my point of view. My husband loves spending these times with me and he says he feels much more connected and that he sees me so differently now. Is there something wrong with me? Why do I feel so blah? Do I need to do something to feel the same way? Thank you for your help and guidance.



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