My unfaithful spouse says he wants to help me feel safe and says he's trying to do that but I am not allowing him to prove himself trustworthy. When I asked to see his phone he either refuses or gets angry and gives it to me. The contents are always deleted and his phone company doesn't track calls. I asked to put Spyware on his phone as a safeguard but he won't do it. He makes excuses that it costs money that we don't have. Am I wrong for making him do this?