How do I help my unfaithful spouse? (emotional affair/Limerance w/co-worker in a small office group /1 month from D day) His boss takes the group out twice a week for business lunches, then they all get together the rest of the week and go out. They all ride together. I asked him not to ride with her but he just did last week in her new car! The group did, he sat in the back. He does not see The 90 day option mentioned in the Limerance video, he watched, as something doable and he has said, "What you think I need to quite my job"? His office is just 3 minutes from our home. Help please. Just started Boot Camp this weekend. He wants our marriage and me.