Are you familiar with the Enneagram of Personality? If so, have you ever considered teaching about the 9 different types and how different the "Why" might be for each person simply because of their personality type? I've been reading up on the enneagram, and it's helping to explain a lot about my own emotional affair, and also a friend's physical affair, and the possible "why" behind each one. It's a helpful tool in recovery, for self reflection and to understand our unique situations and how best to heal from them. I'd love to see AR incorporate this into the materials.