Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness?

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My partner is very charming, has been told repeatedly by several others that he is charming, and admits that he knows he is charming. He had 5 affairs of varying lengths over the course of four years. He says that he does not use pimping behaviors and with each affair he was not looking to start a relationship, he was just being charming and friendly and the woman misread his charm for interest. He admits that each woman would tell him that they were attracted to him and then his love addiction would kick in and end up in an affair. He claims that he is charming and extends to all his colleagues both men and women. He says he’s just a good guy. Is charm another form of pimping?



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