My husband and I have been participating in EMS Online and are at end of week 6. It's been very tough so far. The affair partner has left and so we will have the next 5 weeks to finish the course. The one thing we have noticed is our lack of friendship, probably due to me. Prior to the EMS starting we use to have fun and horse around and just relax..we stopped doing all that and it became more serious. I don't want to send the wrong message about how much this has hurt me but do you think it's good that we bring back the friendship aspect? And just create ease in the home without it being pretending normal? Or would that create a false environment? For our son.