Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: In at least one of his video's Samuel talks about the unfaithful having to let the light be shown on them. My understanding from that is that they need to be able to sit with the pain they caused and really reflect on how they got to that place. I was wondering if Rick or Samuel could talk some more about how a betrayed can tell if the unfaithful is letting the light shine on them, or even how the betrayed can help the unfaithful make the step. Maybe some information for the unfaithful on how to make that step themselves. Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsRelapse PreventionUncategorizedRL_Media Type: Video