Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers?

My one of many questions to come....The triggers are unbearable...and they are everywhere. I believe my husband is a sex addict. He acted out 28 of the 31 years we were married..Hired 6 prostitutes, stripe clubs, lap dances, disgusting massage, hook ups on chat lines, plus he sat in multiple bars in our area, had an encounter but no sex with a woman trucker.. So because of all his crap daily I see his secret life, I’m on the road alot so I see most of the bars, truck drivers everywhere, places he had massages, and a huge trigger for me are big breasted woman, because I’m quite small and very self conscious, obviously stripe clubs, prostitutes have large breast so I see it everywhere, and causes me major anxiety. How can I handle the triggers when they are in my face daily?