My mate had an affair two years ago, but the trickle truth started a year and a half ago. With every new bit of information, it became harder and harder to want to be with my mate. During the EMSO my mate had a relapse. This last act left me numb, not feeling good nor bad about us. But I also felt a sense of relief as it also disclosed more information they hadn’t told me and confirmed my gut feelings during those times. Is it normal to just hit a point in the recovery process when you have been hurt so often that you no longer feel anything? That everything inside shuts down? I haven’t had an actual “D-Day” where I have had full disclosure and these trickle truths are killing me.