It's been 1 year since EMS and 2 years since my affair was exposed and 1 year since my wife's affairs have been exposed one thing that I remember you saying Rick was that my wife sucked at empathy and here we are a year later and she still sucks at empathy. She continues to guilt and shame me about my affair and I choose not to fire back at her with her affairs I'm having a lot of intrusive thoughts and nightmares recently of her and her AP's I feel as my wife won't truly know what her affair cost me. She had been with my best friend of 20 years and it hurts to deal with the pain of his betrayal and my wife's betrayal. What should I do?