Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner?

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I recently found out about a specific sex act my husband engaged in with the AP. It's something he's never done with me or shown much interest in, but he says he enjoys it. How can I not feel like I don't measure up? Prior to this I may have even tried it, but I don't want those comparisons for either of us. What do I do? How do I get out of my own head?



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