We are starting our 4th week in EMS Online. My husband will not sit down and talk through a complete disclosure. He has had 2 long term affairs which started before us dating, through the next 3 years and the year we have been married until I caught him. Along with over 35 online sex relationships. If I ask questions, he considers it “You just want know to make me feel like a POS” or I don't need to know. He is cruel and distant and had now 3 more indiscretions since D-Day 8 months ago. How do we continue in this process when only one of us is committed?