We're a both and we have a family vacation planned but it's returning to the scene of a crime. My spouse has acted out twice in this town, Where we had a first wedding anniversary and bought a vacation property there and the acting was with a close friend. I know the triggers will be there for both of us. What do you suggest we do for each other? Do we talk about the acting out? Or do we not? How much do I really need to know? My imagination can go a 1,000 miles a minute and I want to be able to present in the moment with my family. How can we reclaim what was once ours on this vacation?