Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner?

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My wife thinks that because my affair lasted a few years it had to be love. I said it was a friendship turned affair then I broke it off when reality set in.

 

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After listening to your

After listening to your response I still don't know the answer. The wife said she doesn't understand how her spouse could not have loved the AP considering the length of the affair. I have the same question. How could you carry on an affair for 3 years and not love the AP?