My husband and I are in week 4 of EMS Online. Both my husband and the affair partner had said aloud that their union was God ordained and that they just met at the wrong time. I disagree wholeheartedly with that statement as I cannot accept in my mind that God promotes adultery. My husband confided that he prayed for her to return to him during a downturn in their affair and that he felt God answered his prayer. Please explain in more detail what Rick means by his suggestion. I know that nothing surprises God, but I have, so far, been unable to wrap my mind around that God was involved in the affair and the anguish it brought about at all.