We attended the EMS workshop last month. There, my husband seemed to begin to understand my pain and did apologize for his infidelity. Since we have returned home, we have got along better and he began to show little signs of affection. The problem is that he refuses to have full disclosure. He will not verbally commit to me that he has no contact with his AP. He will not discuss or answer any of my questions about his affair. He has not made himself accountable by sharing passwords, etc., with me. He has made no effort to get counseling, or join a men's support group. We are getting along much better so I am afraid to "rock the boat". However, we haven't dealt with the internal issues of this infidelity and it's hard for me to feel safe and trust him. I'm so afraid this pattern will repeat itself, as it has in the past, with the same woman. This is so hard. What do I do? Do I push him to get full disclosure? Do I give him some space, so we can enjoy each other again before dealing with these difficult issues?