This September, it will be two years since finding out about my husband's affair. Since I found out we have experienced two separate court battles for 2 different kids, my husband losing his job, medical problems with my husband, and my mom, dad, and grandma having major health issues plus the challenge of a blended family that is quickly going south. Our lives are chaotic. Can you believe I still haven't got full disclosure? Now that I am asking for it, he says he will give it to me, but he will give it in a hateful manner and he will be blunt and mean while giving it because he doesn't want to go back to that shameful place. He sees it as "moving backwards." I don't know if I can receive full disclosure if he communicates it in a hateful way. What should I do?