Expert Q&A

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.
Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.


Title Post datesort ascending
Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? Aug 3, 2022
Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? Jul 7, 2022
Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? Jul 1, 2022
Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? Jul 1, 2022
Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? Jul 1, 2022
Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope? Jun 14, 2022
Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing? May 24, 2022
Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? May 24, 2022
Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? May 24, 2022
Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes? May 24, 2022
Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery? May 24, 2022
Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? May 24, 2022
Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? May 24, 2022
Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? May 24, 2022
Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair? May 24, 2022
Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? Apr 20, 2022
Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? Apr 20, 2022
Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? Apr 20, 2022


What type of affair was it?

Our free Affair Analyzer provides you with insights about your unique situation and gives you a personalized plan of action.
Take the Affair Analyzer

Free Surviving Infidelity Bootcamp

Our experts designed this step-by-step guide to help you survive infidelity. Be intentional with your healing with this free 7-day bootcamp.
I would highly recommend giving this a try.
-D, Texas