All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness 4970 Resources Type Title Posted I've told my wife that what I did isn't her fault, but she continues to question me and it's making me mad, any suggestions? 12/02/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on December 5 12/02/2011 How do I encourage my mate to join me in forginess work? 12/02/2011 My husband has never taken responsibiltiy for what he's done, we're seperated, how will this hinder the healing for my children and myself? 11/07/2011 My husband's anger has really hurt me and he refuses to listen, I've uninvited him to Thanksgiving because it doesn't feel safe, what do I tell the kids? 11/07/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on November 28 11/07/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on November 7 10/31/2011 My mate seemed to be highly motivated at the beginning of our recovery, but 3 months later we seem to be slipping back into our old ways, when do I call it quits? 10/31/2011 If my mate is withdrawn how do I get them to engage if they don't seem to want to? 10/31/2011 My mate is conflict avoidant and says yes to things he doesn't want and then gets angry at me, what can I do? 10/31/2011 Rick's Q & A call on October 31 10/17/2011 Disappointment has caused me to lose my feelings for my husband is that normal and how do I get them back? 10/17/2011 How can I communicate without making my mate defensive? He feels I'm overly critical 10/17/2011 My mate said they feel they are safe from thier AP because they don't feel their AP would want to be with them, that makes me nervous, is that okay? 10/17/2011 Rick's Q & A call on October 17 10/12/2011 Rick's Q & A call on October 10 10/03/2011 We disagree on whether or not he has an addiction which makes me feel unsafe, what can we do? 10/03/2011 Will a hurt spouse heal if they just try to get over it? 10/03/2011 How do you handle close frineds who are probing about what happened, but you don't want to disclose information to them? 10/03/2011 How do you respond if your mate doesn't respect your boundaries? 10/03/2011 I feel I've truly forgiven my mate, but will I always think about what he's done? 10/03/2011 What is going on if a sex addict quits acting out, but isn't engaging in their program and how now become angry? 10/03/2011 What's the avantage to getting help sooner rather than later after discovery? 10/03/2011 I'm a woman who cheated on her husband and I don't know how to find new passion for my mate, any suggestions? 9/30/2011 We just finished week 7 and I feel my mate is still defensive and doesn't get it, what can I do with my discouragement and how do I respond? 9/30/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on October 3 9/30/2011 If there is a limerant affair why would my husband have so much involvement with her family and intoduce them to my kids? 9/30/2011 How do you handle a stituation where your mate died and then you discovered they were being unfaithful? How do you deal with the betrayal when they are already gone? 9/12/2011 I'm the hurt spouse, is it wise to bring up choices my mate is makeing that really hurt me, or do I need to just suffer silently? 9/12/2011 If you're a sex addict when is it appropriate to have friends of the opposite sex? 9/12/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 19 9/12/2011 Do you have any suggestions for couples that address sexual healing? 9/12/2011 How do I deal with my wife's triggers? 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 12 8/29/2011 How does codependecy contribute to infidelty? 8/29/2011 What are some resources for the wife of a porn addict? 8/29/2011 I'm not in love with my mate, how can I ever get those feelings back again? My AP makes me feel ways my mate never has 8/29/2011 I'm wondering if my mate and I are compatible, when does one call it quits? 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A call on August 29 8/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on August 22 8/02/2011 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 I said I'd leave if my mate ever cheated on me, am I crazy for staying and trying to work things out? 7/22/2011 When is there too much hurt to reconcile? I can't even let my family know that we're talking, should he try to talk to them? 7/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 25 7/13/2011 The Definition of Freedom - Before and After an Affair 7/07/2011 Fifteen months after disclosure is it normal to still have emotional flooding and how do I get my husband to understand? 7/05/2011 What boudaries need to be set up at work? 7/05/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 11 6/28/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 27 6/20/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 20 6/13/2011 Pages« first‹ previous…899091929394959697…next ›last »
