For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? 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Healing After An Affair 333 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD? 3/23/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This? 10/10/2017 Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim? 10/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner? 9/08/2017 Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers? 9/06/2017 Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger? 8/18/2017 Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding? 7/26/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
