Q&A Am I Expecting too Much?
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Question
It's been 6 Months since D-Day when I asked my boyfriend why he cheated. He says he doesn't know but when he figures it out we can discuss it. I get it, some people really don't know. So I expressed to him the importance in finding out so it can be addressed and he could live a healthier life for himself and us. Especially since he wants us to try and work through this. A few weeks ago, I blew up because I had suppressed so many feelings of anger, hurt and betrayal, just to name a few. He suggested we get counseling. I realized the pain I was in, so I sought out Individual Counseling for myself then joined Harboring for Hope. Earlier this week, I asked if he was serious about Counseling and he said, yes. But He has done nothing. I feel like it's pointless to remain in the relationship if he is not going try to seek help. Maybe I'm being impatient. Most days, I feel like walking away, giving no explanation and never looking back.
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