My husband and his affair partner had sex the last time they saw one another, so there was only an opportunity for two sexual encounters between them. I am really hung up on these episodes and have this weird feeling that I want to reclaim them. Is there something wrong with me? Would this be tortuous for us both or therapeutic? Is there a risk it might make him miss her body, remember the sexual encounters, and perhaps even make him want to contact her again? He says he can't remember much about them or her face. Could it put me back into trauma?