Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps?

I'm struggling with knowing if it’s necessary for me to be doing all these steps again when it has been 10 years since my husband’s affair. I remember asking a lot at the time and I think I got full disclosure from him. I am fuzzy now on certain specifics and I just don't know if it’s beneficial for me to clarify again. I've been wrestling with this for the last 2 weeks now because I feel as if it's hindering the depth of my involvement in this course. I feel like we have good communication and we are doing well at this point that I kind of don't want to rock the boat, but I still have fears that pop up when he is working with his co-worker (which prompted me to take this course). So anyway, I hope that all makes sense. I want to get a more thorough healing from his affair and I want to fully answer these questions but it’s hard when the affair was so long ago.