After decades of denying, flirting, and non-touching connections in generally every public scenario even in my presence, my spouse finally admitted that this is an issue. How does the betrayed spouse address these actions when it obviously occurs once again their presence? If not addressed in the present, the wayward spouse easily denies any wrong doing being able to lie about the details and redefine their actions. What kind of boundaries should I put into place to protect myself and avoid this unfaithfulness from occurring while I stand there watching. Too many years of this occurring has caused much damage to me and our relationship, not to mention them.