Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy?

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Question

We are 3 1/2 months from DDay. Our biggest issue is my husband's struggle to show empathy to my emotional needs. When I get upset, he has not yet learned how to respond to me even if I am upset specifically due to something he has said. We are seeing a counselor and making progress but I am struggling with this issue. What suggestions do you have for me to handle my emotions and be more tolerant of his lack of empathy?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas