Q&A How Do We Navigate This and Reconnect Sexually?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 03/08/2017 - 13:37

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Before I discovered my husband’s secret life of pornography and addiction to anonymous sex, I believed I was the only person he had any sexual experience with. I was a virgin when we married, so he is the only man I know sexually. He told me he was a virgin as well. Now that I realize that everything I once thought about our sexual past is not true, I am having a hard time connecting to him. I feel like there is a wall between us because he has so much experience and I don't. Any advice for retraining my thoughts so we can reconnect sexually?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas