We are almost 1 year from D day, and my wife is only a few months out from no contact with her AP. I have been working really hard on our marriage, spending more time together, going on dates, etc. I tell my wife how I feel and share my love with her but she does not return any type of emotions. When confronted about this she told me that she has lots to tell me but physically can’t. She has been through Hope for Healing but did not really put much effort into it. She did not click with her group very well. How long should I expect her to show no emotions towards me and our marriage? How long should I wait before it is enough? I feel like I'm being used as her security blanket.