It's been 6 months since D-Day and 3 months since relapse. The affair partner broke off all communication 3 months ago but my wife still tries to text or email him. Since he won't communicate back, now she is friending people in his department to find things out about him. The AP works in another department out of state and affair was mostly thru email, texts, and phone calls. Wife and AP have gotten together whenever he came into town for meetings or training. I'm worried about another relapse when he comes into town again. Wife is currently ambivalent and shows little or no emotions toward me.