Q&A Can Pop Psychology Predict Our Compatibility?

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Another one for ya: My husband say’s "It's crazy to put so much weight into this" and I kinda’ agree knowing God is limitless BUT it’s really bothering me! I just can’t shake it off and stop thinking about it. A while back I read about this study stating that the ‘happiest, longest, healthiest marriages” have “similar physical features” ( My husband and I don’t really look alike at all.) Supposedly these are ‘scientific studies’..? There’s even a website dedicated to matching people based on their physical similarities. Ha! On top of that, in trying to learn more about my spouse, we have been doing MBTI personality studies which has been incredibly helpful in learning what makes us tick but even according to that we are ‘incompatible.’ Foolishly, I also typed our AP’s (couldn’t help it) and based on this our AP's are what “complement our personalities” according to the lists Aaaannnd THEN there’s the birth order one: I’m the oldest and he is either an oldest or only. (We’re not sure because he’s from a broken family.) What was meant to be informative, fun and connecting is now a thorn in my side! As well as a huge hit to my momentum and makes me very mentally vulnerable to Satan’s attacks in my thought life. Regardless of how silly and irrelevant it may be… could you please uncloud this for me? Should any weight be given unto these types of psychological studies? Please tell it to me straight.



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