After D-Day my betrayed spouse said we have to work things out for the kids and we had hysterical bonding. We were doing well up until my affair partner sent our intimate videos to my spouse's family and cousins. My spouse totally shut down and stopped talking to me. He sent me back to my country for a few months to settle things down with his family. He bought me back 3 months after but he’s sleeping in a different room. He barely talks to me. It has been 2 months since I came back. Whenever I try to approach him, he gets emotional, starts flooding, and he backs out of the conversation. What should I do now? He didn’t say he wants reconciliation nor he wants to do anything about it. I feel so lost because he's not even communicating with me about anything.