Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Tendency to Withdraw?

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It's been 7 months since d-day, and I am the unfaithful spouse. My husband and I are in the Married for Life program. We are learning about the dialogues, and freeze and flee is us all the way. We never fight, and never have. Both of us are withdrawers to the core. How can we learn to overcome our desire to withdraw, especially now that I feel like I have no right to bring up any concerns after what I've done?



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