Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse?

To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.
Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.


Last year I had an emotional affair. I did EMSO, I worked so hard all year, books, classes, some marriage counseling, podcasts, etc. I never felt like my heart changed towards my husband, and he was amazing! Even though he was crushed, he chose forgiveness. I suffered so much over missing the AP, over not feeling like I wanted to towards my husband, and just feeling trapped in my life. Now I recently had another affair. I feel like I fell into this. I feel like I am now an addict and it was like a drug hit for me. I told my husband I will never do this again! I need to figure out what the lesson is I need to learn to avoid this. Help me please. What should I do? I feel as betrayed by myself as my husband does.



RL_Media Type: 

What type of affair was it?

Our free Affair Analyzer provides you with insights about your unique situation and gives you a personalized plan of action.
Take the Affair Analyzer

Free Surviving Infidelity Bootcamp

Our experts designed this step-by-step guide to help you survive infidelity. Be intentional with your healing with this free 7-day bootcamp.
I would highly recommend giving this a try.
-D, Texas