Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 08/22/2018 - 13:36

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How do I deal with working with my spouse's affair partner? I have to see him multiple times a day because we work together and we were friends both at work and outside of work, but since D-Day neither of us have spoken to each other.

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We have a very similar

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We have a very similar situation but AP is NOT at all remorseful and has actively worked against our recovery for the past year. It was extremely painful to know she didn't give a fig about how much she hurt me. Her response (or lack of) to my hurt was more traumatic than the original betrayal of the affair.

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