Q&A How Do I Heal from My Mates Suicide during Recovery?

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My husband committed suicide weeks into our Married for Life program and just after starting Hope for Healing... Things were going really well and I’m very lost... I just don’t understand.. We had just had therapy and church the night before. We were excited for the forward momentum.. I’m so confused and numb and I don’t know what to think or how to feel.. I’m just lost... Does Affair Recovery offer any support for this kind of thing?... What would you recommend? I’m completely shattered and broken after all we’ve already been through.. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here..



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I am so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you-My Aunt just experienced this a month ago after she found evidence of my uncle cheating- she approached him about it- he denied it all and quickly begged for her to stay and forgive any wrong he had done. She was not able to forgive him at that time (she didn’t even know the details - how could she forgive?) and days later he took his life. My aunt has no answers, is torturing herself with guilt saying “maybe I should have just forgave him” - she is so traumatized by the suicide and by the infidelity. She has a long road of recovery ahead. She is clinging to her faith- and has amazing people supporting her. I will have to tell her about the grief handbook! Thank you for reaching out and telling your story. I will. Be Praying for you and your recovery.

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