Q&A How Long Does it Take to Heal From Infidelity?
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Question
When does the unfaithful spouse begin to think less about their affair partner, and when do their feelings for them begin to fade? I don't want to constantly be asking my husband how he is feeling about his AP, because that will just serve as a reminder of her. I appreciate that everyone is different, but I think it will help me to know how long it generally takes for the unfaithful to "get over" their feelings for the AP. The affair lasted 18 months.
What type of affair was it?
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