My husband started his affair at work in 2014 and he said they told each other everything. He felt emotionally connected to her. In 2017 my husband found out from another employee that she was leaving next month on maternity leave. The affair partner was having a baby by surrogate. My husband stormed into her office and asked why she never told him about the baby. My husband said they did not speak to each other for 2 days until he went into her office. The baby was never brought up again after the initial discovery. My husband insist that he became upset because she never told him of the baby. I don’t believe that was why he became upset. Could that really be why he became upset?