Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing?

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I am a betrayed husband, I am in the Harboring Hope course, and reading as much as I can. My wife had one affair 8 years ago and a second 2 years ago. The first affair ended about a month after D-Day, we did almost no work. The second affair lasted about a year after D-Day. She completely refused to get any help and blamed me for our so called bad marriage and affair. She does go to individual counselling, she does not talk about her sessions. She has watched some AR videos and has read some articles. We are in the process of legal separation and have been living apart for a year and a half. My question is what will happen to her if she does not get any help? I know she struggles with what she has done!! Her main excuse is to say I would never get over two betrayals. What will this do to her if she does not deal with the situation? Even though I know our marriage is over, I do care and am concerned about her and our two young children.



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