Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward?

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Question

Rick, I am the unfaithful partner. I have tried to disclose all of the details and events to my wife. Unfortunately, I can not remember all of the details that she is looking for. I have tried to explain the fog of sin I was in during my acting out. My wife continues to scour my emails for new info. When she finds new details out about an event that I have already disclosed to her, she says it is D Day all over again. We have had many D Days and it feels like can not move forward when she keeps looking looking to the past. At what point do we stop looking for new details and start focusing on moving forward and repairing our relationship and healing me?

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